高大上秀口語(yǔ)：40句英文讓你和陌生人成為朋友

　　1.Where did you grow up? This is a great icebreaker that gets someone talking about the past, which often puts others at ease。

　　1.你是在哪長(zhǎng)大的?這是非常好的一句開(kāi)場(chǎng)白，可以讓對(duì)方談?wù)撈疬^(guò)去，這樣對(duì)話雙方會(huì)比較輕松。

　　2. Do you have any pets? People love their pets, and inquiring about them encourages further conversation. And, even if the person you're chatting with doesn't have any, it's still a good start。

　　2.你養(yǎng)寵物嗎?人們都喜歡寵物，問(wèn)起他們的寵物能讓對(duì)話進(jìn)行下去。即使對(duì)方?jīng)]有寵物，這也不失為一個(gè)好的開(kāi)場(chǎng)白。

　　3. What's your favorite book? Instead of asking what people are reading right now, which can be a bit too intimate, asking about a book they love can create a mutual connection。

　　3. 你最喜歡的書(shū)是哪一本? 如果直接詢問(wèn)對(duì)方正在閱讀的書(shū)，顯得太過(guò)親密。而問(wèn)他們喜歡的書(shū)利于在彼此之間建立聯(lián)系。

　　4. What's the first thing you do after work? Do you kick off your shoes? Hit the gym? Asking how people relax makes them feel relaxed。

　　4. 下班后做的第一件事是什么?是踢掉鞋子?去健身?問(wèn)人們?nèi)绾畏潘赡茏屗麄兏械接淇臁?/p>

　　5. What's your dream job? Even at a corporate gathering, inquiring about someone's dream job is a fun way to get a conversation started。

　　5. 你理想的職業(yè)是什么?即使是在公司聚會(huì)上，問(wèn)理想職業(yè)也是開(kāi)始對(duì)話的一種有效方式。

　　6. If you could live anywhere in the world, where would it be? Not everyone gets to travel tons, making this a fun question for anyone。

　　6. 如果你可以住在世界上任何一個(gè)地方，你會(huì)住在哪?不是每個(gè)人都有機(jī)會(huì)到處旅行，這個(gè)問(wèn)題能讓大家都開(kāi)心起來(lái)。

　　7. What countries have you traveled to? Even if you haven't traveled the world, asking if others have encourages someone to share memories。

　　7. 你去過(guò)哪些國(guó)家?即使你沒(méi)有出去旅游過(guò)，問(wèn)問(wèn)別人可以讓他們分享回憶。

　　8. Do you like to cook? Asking about favorite dishes and culinary adventures sparks delicious dishing。

　　8. 你喜歡烹飪嗎?問(wèn)問(wèn)對(duì)方最喜歡的菜肴，烹飪方面的經(jīng)歷總能引起有趣的話題。

　　9. What's your favorite food? Everyone eats, making this an icebreaker that works anywhere, anytime。

　　9. 你最喜歡的食物是什么?民以食為天，這個(gè)問(wèn)題百試不靈。

　　10. What's your favorite drink? A wonderfully basic question, asking about best-loved beverages works at any gathering。

　　10. 你最喜歡的飲料是什么? 絕妙的常規(guī)問(wèn)題。任何聚會(huì)上問(wèn)這個(gè)問(wèn)題總不會(huì)錯(cuò)。

　　11. Do you have a favorite local restaurant? This is a great conversation to get people talking about their favorite local hangouts, which puts everyone at ease.

　　11. 你有最喜歡的餐廳嗎?這個(gè)問(wèn)題能讓人們談?wù)撈鹑粘Ｐ蓍e的地方，使大家放松。

　　12. What's your favorite movie? You can find out a lot about a person when you chat about a favorite movie. Follow it up with specific questions, such as scene stealers and actors in the flick。

　　12. 你最喜歡哪部電影?人們對(duì)電影的喜好能反映個(gè)人特點(diǎn)。接著問(wèn)些具體的問(wèn)題，比如誰(shuí)最搶?xiě)颍械难輪T等等。

　　13. What movie are you dying to see? Jump in with a question that involves everyone and will get a group chatting over new releases。

　　13. 哪一部電影你非看不可?這個(gè)問(wèn)題可以讓所有人都加入到對(duì)新影片的討論中。

　　14. What are you watching on TV? This is another question that won't offend and is open-ended, encouraging even the supershy to start chatting。

　　14. 你都看些什么電視節(jié)目?這又是一個(gè)比較中性的問(wèn)題，答案很開(kāi)放，讓那些性格內(nèi)向的人也能加入討論。

　　15. What's the last concert you went to? Another easygoing question for one-on-one conversation or for jumping into a group conversation. And it's a fun way to find out what kinds of music your new friends listen to。

　　15. 你最近去的音樂(lè)會(huì)是那一場(chǎng)?這個(gè)話題不僅適合兩個(gè)人談?wù)摚鳛樾〗M討論的話題也完全沒(méi)問(wèn)題，還能讓你知道新朋友的音樂(lè)偏好。

　　16. What's the craziest thing you've ever done? For those who are ready to make a bold first impression, this is a question that gets attention and can lead to fun conversation。

　　16. 你做過(guò)的最瘋狂的事是什么?如果你想讓人印象深刻的話，這是一個(gè)能夠吸引注意而且制造樂(lè)趣的話題。

　　17. If you were stranded on a deserted island and you could have only one item, what would it be? Yes, a classic one-liner, but this convo starter always gets a good answer。

　　17. 如果你被困在沙漠中但只能帶一樣?xùn)|西，你會(huì)帶什么?沒(méi)錯(cuò)，就是這個(gè)經(jīng)典的問(wèn)題，但通常你會(huì)得到一個(gè)好回答。

　　18. What's your favorite season? Here's a question that works well with the "it's always easy to talk about the weather" concept. Follow up by asking about the current weather conditions, and you have a conversation。

　　18. 你最喜歡的季節(jié)是哪一個(gè)? 這個(gè)問(wèn)題驗(yàn)證了那句“如果不知道說(shuō)什么，問(wèn)天氣總是沒(méi)錯(cuò)的。”這之后再問(wèn)現(xiàn)在的天氣狀況，對(duì)話就開(kāi)始啦。

　　19. Do you speak any other languages? Asking a semipersonal question encourages others to share information about themselves without feeling guarded。

　　19. 你會(huì)說(shuō)其他語(yǔ)言嗎?問(wèn)一些比較私人的話題，可以讓對(duì)方分享一些信息但又不會(huì)過(guò)度防備。

　　20. Do you have anything fun planned for the weekend? Make chatting easy by asking about future plans — without setting off a stalker vibe. Keep it light and share your plans too。

　　20. 這個(gè)周末有什么計(jì)劃?關(guān)于未來(lái)打算的問(wèn)題讓對(duì)話變得輕松，但不要刨根問(wèn)底，給人居心叵測(cè)的感覺(jué)。盡量保證話題輕松，同時(shí)也分享你的計(jì)劃。

　　21. Where's your favorite place to hang out in town? Here is another fun way to start a conversation about your community without being threatening. And it opens discussion to favorite restaurants, bars, and shops.

　　21. 鎮(zhèn)上最喜歡的去處?這又是一個(gè)有趣而不私人的開(kāi)場(chǎng)問(wèn)題。接著就可以討論最喜歡的餐廳，酒吧和商店。

　　22. I like your shirt! Where did you get it? A genuine compliment makes anyone smile。

　　22. 我很喜歡你的襯衫，在哪買(mǎi)的?真誠(chéng)的稱贊能換來(lái)對(duì)方的笑臉。

　　23. I can't place this song — do you know it? Hey, even if you know the tune, asking someone else about the music playing is a simple start。

　　23. 我想不起來(lái)這首歌叫什么了——你知道嗎? 哪怕你知道答案，問(wèn)對(duì)方這個(gè)問(wèn)題能輕松的讓你們開(kāi)始攀談。

　　24. How long have you been at your job? Even at a corporate event, asking others about their job titles, roles, and how long they have been at the company breaks the ice。

　　24. 你在現(xiàn)在的工作崗位上做了幾年?即使在公司活動(dòng)上，詢問(wèn)關(guān)于職位和工作時(shí)間也是很好的開(kāi)場(chǎng)白。

　　25. Tell me about something that made you laugh this week. Everyone loves a good laugh! Asking about something that brought on a chuckle makes anyone smile。

　　25. 告訴我這星期讓你開(kāi)心的事情吧。人人都愛(ài)笑!討論點(diǎn)有趣的事能讓人開(kāi)懷一笑。

　　26. If you had a million dollars, what would you do with it? A bit more direct, but asking a specific question that requires thought can really make an impression。

　　26. 如果你有一百萬(wàn)美元，你會(huì)做什么?這問(wèn)題有點(diǎn)直接，不過(guò)這種需要思考的問(wèn)題通常能給人留下印象。

　　27. How are you today? Sure, this is a no-brainer question, but it gets people talking。

　　27. 今天怎么樣?好吧，這問(wèn)題有點(diǎn)沒(méi)水準(zhǔn)，但總能讓人說(shuō)點(diǎn)什么。

　　28. Where is the best place you have ever visited? Taking a vacation is always wonderful. Asking someone new about a favorite destination is always an easy way to start talking。

　　28. 你去過(guò)最贊的地方是哪?假期絕對(duì)是個(gè)好話題，而問(wèn)人們最喜歡的地方讓談話很容易就開(kāi)始。

　　29. Did you hear about (something trending in the news)? Pick something pretty generic, remembering to stay away from politics and religion, and the conversation will get rolling。

　　29. 你聽(tīng)說(shuō)了(當(dāng)下熱點(diǎn)事件)嗎?挑一點(diǎn)比較大眾的問(wèn)題，記住不要提起政治和宗教，這樣對(duì)話就會(huì)開(kāi)始了。

　　30. So, what's your story? OK, this one is borderline pick-up line, but it's also a direct approach for chatting。

　　30. 你有什么經(jīng)歷分享?這個(gè)開(kāi)場(chǎng)白不要輕易采用，不過(guò)也不失為一個(gè)讓對(duì)方開(kāi)口的方法。

　　31. This place is awesome! Have you been here before? Complimenting the venue is a positive way to chat with others.

　　31. 這地方太棒了!你以前來(lái)過(guò)這嗎?稱贊場(chǎng)地也是打開(kāi)話匣子的好方法。

　　32. If you could be an animal, what would you be and why? Just don't roar after asking! This question is also a fun and light way to break the ice。

　　32. 如果你能成為一種動(dòng)物，你會(huì)做什么，為什么?問(wèn)完問(wèn)題以后，千萬(wàn)別大笑。這是個(gè)有趣又輕松的話題。

　　33. If you could invite a famous person over for dinner, who would it be? Also an often-used convo starter, this question has lasted the test of time, which makes it a winner anywhere, anytime。

　　33. 如果你可以邀請(qǐng)一位名人共進(jìn)晚餐，你會(huì)邀請(qǐng)誰(shuí)?同樣是個(gè)經(jīng)典問(wèn)題，但畢竟經(jīng)過(guò)時(shí)間的考驗(yàn)，在任何時(shí)間，任何地點(diǎn)都是適用的。

　　34. What's your favorite holiday? Open and generic, a basic question is an easy way to start mingling。

　　34. 你最喜歡什么節(jié)日?普通的問(wèn)題最能開(kāi)始一段對(duì)話。

　　35. What's the craziest thing you've ever eaten? Here's another fun question that gets people talking! And it's a great question to use when you feel awkward joining a group that's already chatting。

　　35. 你吃過(guò)的最不可思議的東西是什么?這又是個(gè)讓人說(shuō)話的有趣問(wèn)題!當(dāng)別人已經(jīng)在討論時(shí)，這個(gè)問(wèn)題能幫你化解尷尬。

　　36. What is one thing you couldn't live without? Wine? Chocolate? Bread? There's no wrong answer to this question, which makes it another winner。

　　36. 離開(kāi)了什么你就無(wú)法生活?酒?巧克力?面包?這個(gè)問(wèn)題沒(méi)有固定答案，這也是為什么這是個(gè)好問(wèn)題的原因了。

　　37. Have you ever won anything? It feels good when you win something, so asking someone about this special moment encourages sharing。

　　37. 你有贏得過(guò)什么獎(jiǎng)勵(lì)嗎?能贏得什么總令人開(kāi)心，所以問(wèn)問(wèn)別人的類似經(jīng)歷，這有助于互相分享。

　　38. Do you have any brothers or sisters? Slightly personal without requiring too much info, asking others about their family is a smart way to make connections。

　　38. 你有兄弟姐妹嗎?有點(diǎn)私人，但又不會(huì)透露太多信息。詢問(wèn)對(duì)方的家庭能快速的和他建立起聯(lián)系。

　　39. Have you ever met anyone famous? A brush with a famous person is always a thrill, making talking about it with a stranger a fun icebreaker。

　　39. 你有碰到過(guò)名人嗎? 和名人擦身而過(guò)總令人興奮，和陌生人討論這個(gè)話題再適合不過(guò)。

　　40. Do you prefer texting, calling, or emailing? Emailing! This is actually a great question to ask someone after you have made a connection. Follow up by asking for your new friend's phone number or email address。

　　40. 你是傾向于發(fā)短信，打電話，還是發(fā)郵件呢?郵件!如果你和對(duì)方熟悉起來(lái)的話，這絕對(duì)是個(gè)好問(wèn)題。之后你就可以問(wèn)問(wèn)新朋友的電話號(hào)碼和郵箱了。

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